Skip to main content

Sound the Siren! Junior Footy's Back.

As the desolation of the Collingwood Grand final loss washed over us at the MCG last year, along with the river of beers and tears, my daughter said to me, ‘Mum, I can’t WAIT til next footy season. I mean MY footy season. I can’t wait to play footy again!’

'Footy’s back!' A few weeks ago, this phrase caused some consternation, with AFLW supporters pointing out that footy had been back for quite a while, actually. But I’m throwing it back out there: it’s the start of the junior footy season for many young players this month. Across town, parents are signing up for orange duty and players are cleaning off, buying or finding their boots, whether it’s for practice matches or round one of the season.

Last year, our daughter began playing footy with the local Under 14s team. After her first game, in which she marked in front of goals and kicked truly, she came off the field, saying, ‘That was the best fun ever! I can’t wait for next week!’ 


Season 2018, pic (c) Lyndal Williams.

I loved playing footy as I grew up. As the only girl in the neighbourhood, I loved the tackling, the hustle for the mark and the challenge of the unpredictable bounce. We played in a pack in the park next to our house, just a rag-tag bunch of kids, rather than a proper team. There were no places other than that for a girl to play in those days; well not that I knew of.

As for the notion of a girl playing football, my mother said to me recently ‘Oh, I don’t think you’d have been any good as a footballer, Anna. You’d have been hopeless.’ The words hit me like a gut punch. Really? Good or not, I would have loved to try. 

These days, female football has grown to 26 per cent of all participation, ‘with 127,115 women and girls pulling on the jumper in season 2018’, according to AFL statistics. Apparently there are now ‘1,000 dedicated female club teams across Victoria’. 

On my way to the first ever AFLW game at Ikon Park in 2017, as fans streamed through the streets of Carlton, a memory startled me: my first school detention had been for kicking a football on the oval when I was in Year 7. I was told it was 'unladylike.' I wonder what Tayla Harris, Carlton’s gun kick, would say to that? Or Erin Phillips, this year's AFLW best and fairest?

The lock-out crowd at Ikon Park that night seemed to cheer every goal as a celebration. Never mind that my team lost. We were all side by side that night, the crowd of fans and the players caught up in the possibilities, the peripheral nature of women’s sport coming to centre stage.

Last year we had two grand finals in our orbit. Collingwood lost the big one in the last couple of minutes, but our family still scored a 2018 footy club premiership–it was the first ever girls’ premiership win for my daughter’s junior football club, St Kilda City. While it's not the highest level of footy competition in the land, it was a premiership win, and some history, setting down a story for the future. 

This weekend’s practice games are extra special for us: our boy, injured in the last game of his U12 season back in 2014, is taking to the field again in the game that he loves. Four and a half years has been a long road back, but there’s a path there for him again, just as there is now a path for his sister. 


Update: an injury at footy training meant our son was not able to play the first practice match this weekend.

Published in Footy Almanac, 8 April 2019

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

The Waiting

Morning walk.  I wake too late to do my nature writing workshop so I decide to get out into nature instead! Head off at about 7 am, sustained on half a cup of hot water with lemon, a banana and a snack KitKat. Make it to the backbeach in time to see the gold coming up from behind the sand dunes, flowering light from the lighthouse. Tiny black and white wren on the rocks, the Plover family just foraging. A heavy gull takes off when I approach. It flies past me, sits and waits, and flies back as it senses I’m no danger. I take photos and slow-mo videos. I can hardly make out the flying birds as they rise into the dark clouds.  I keep stopping to look at things. At one point I lie with my back in the sand on the edge of the dunes. All around the waves continue coming in and the birds call. What would I do without this?  At the lighthouse, Galahs wheel and screech, their pink bellies exposed as they fly above me. A couple fall behind, screeching ‘wait for me, wait f...

Not smiling, wanking

The bricks were always cold underneath my bum. Cold and hard. I could feel their sharp edges. In the nights we sat and talked. The smells of sour smoke and saliva on one, body odour on another, and menace on the other. The fluorescent globes hummed from the station platform, and the street lights pooled at the corner. Inside was out of bounds to these boys, so we met on our side stairs. The frosted glass door between us and our home. Outside; offside: the limits to friendships. These were the kids we didn’t trust, the boys from the wrong side of the tracks. Where were their parents? Absent fathers, unsighted mothers, these boys roamed the streets and set me on edge. The attraction to the dirt, to the smell of one’s mouth...I can still feel it now. It was an urge, but not an infatuation.  The hearts of these boys remained hidden. It was as if they walked in costumes, played their parts, and kept their distance. We weren’t allowed to welcome them in. One day, my m...

Coming of Age

The bricks were always cold underneath my bum. Cold and hard. I could feel their sharp edges. In the nights we sat and talked, my brother and I and the neighbourhood boys. The smells of sour smoke and saliva on one, body odour on another, and menace on the other. The fluorescent globes hummed from the train station platform across the road, and the street lights pooled at the corner. Inside was out of bounds to these boys, so we met on our side stairs. The frosted glass door between us and our home. These were the kids we didn’t trust, the boys from the wrong side of the tracks. Where were their parents? Absent fathers, unsighted mothers, these boys roamed the streets and set me on edge. The attraction to the dirt, to the smell of one’s mouth...I can still feel it now. It was an urge, but not an infatuation.  The hearts of these boys remained hidden. It was as if they walked in costumes, played their parts, and kept their distance. One day, my mum greeted me at...